Everyone should know the meaning of dueling by now.
This is a card game, which obviously means its a game.
What are games meant to do? Exactly, there ment to have fun.
Yes, you can also be competitive but where is the fun for your opponent when you FTK someone? Are you trying to prove that you are not capable of understanding the meaning of a game?
Everyone has gotten so competative that they forgot what real dueling is.
If you want to duel competativly, duel another player that is dueling competativly.
Don't try to show off. It isn't cool.
When someone says "Fun duel" it doesn't mean "Hey come here and pound my face in with a Dark World deck"
To understand what dueling should be, find a friend and ask the. For a old school duel. That means no cards before GX. Go ahead and use two structure decks. This will help you remember what dueling means.